I was chatting with a friend about the differences in the way we coparent with our exes. “You and your ex have it easy. I wish we could.”
I was thinking about keeping chickens. They were wonderful pets and could teach the kids about where food comes from without lifelong scarring.
Yes, some parents are the sole parent 100% of the time. But I would argue that single parenthood includes a wider cross-section of parents.
Nursing old wounds is tricky work; it transfers the weight and pain of the wound. It is lifted from their small shoulders and dropped heavily onto mine. I feel that pain, it becomes and begets my own.
Our divorce was the right thing for our family, and we’ve each moved forward in a healthier, happier way than our marriage would’ve allowed. The universe is unfolding as it should.