
6 Friends Your Tween Already Has (That you need to be on the lookout for…)
When she was four her best friend was your best friend’s daughter. Now your little darling is nine and her friendships have gotten a bit more complicated.

When she was four her best friend was your best friend’s daughter. Now your little darling is nine and her friendships have gotten a bit more complicated.

As our kids grow, the firsts come less frequently and the time stretched between them lengthen. We don’t celebrate the later milestones.

I catch him lying, he knows he’s lying, he knows I know he’s lying…and he lies anyway.

Two of my kids are transitioning to new schools this years. They’re not anxious about academics, they’re worried about losing friends.

While we cannot control our kids’ thoughts or feelings, what we can do is find new approaches so that we are having a conversation versus a monologue.

I have to fight the urge to “fix” my daughter, fight the desire to change who she is. Because children are meant to be unfinished.

The village can be judgemental – If you are too hands-on you’re a helicopter mom; if you let your son or daughter roam you’re reckless and negligent.

I’d been preparing for YEARS when my daughter had her first period. You would have thought I would have been ready for the main event.

I hated you when you wished for your child to “just stay little,” but now I understand. You’ve said it often. “Why can’t they just stay little?”

On some days, my Facebook Memories seem to suggest that I am crappy mom. On others, I am awesome. Facebook tells me that too.

Take your kids something they forgot, you are not teaching them responsibility. Help with homework, you are a Tiger Mom. Go overboard on a school project, you’re doing it to make yourself look good. Sign your kid up for too many activities, you’re going to stress them out.

When you watch 13 Reasons Why (it’s more detailed and different from the book), it will (hopefully) start a discussion about the tough topics with your teens. Whether they’re 13 or 18, they’re either going to be dealing with ALL of these issues or already have.

When she was four her best friend was your best friend’s daughter. Now your little darling is nine and her friendships have gotten a bit more complicated.

As our kids grow, the firsts come less frequently and the time stretched between them lengthen. We don’t celebrate the later milestones.

I catch him lying, he knows he’s lying, he knows I know he’s lying…and he lies anyway.

Two of my kids are transitioning to new schools this years. They’re not anxious about academics, they’re worried about losing friends.

While we cannot control our kids’ thoughts or feelings, what we can do is find new approaches so that we are having a conversation versus a monologue.

I have to fight the urge to “fix” my daughter, fight the desire to change who she is. Because children are meant to be unfinished.

The village can be judgemental – If you are too hands-on you’re a helicopter mom; if you let your son or daughter roam you’re reckless and negligent.

I’d been preparing for YEARS when my daughter had her first period. You would have thought I would have been ready for the main event.

I hated you when you wished for your child to “just stay little,” but now I understand. You’ve said it often. “Why can’t they just stay little?”

On some days, my Facebook Memories seem to suggest that I am crappy mom. On others, I am awesome. Facebook tells me that too.

Take your kids something they forgot, you are not teaching them responsibility. Help with homework, you are a Tiger Mom. Go overboard on a school project, you’re doing it to make yourself look good. Sign your kid up for too many activities, you’re going to stress them out.

When you watch 13 Reasons Why (it’s more detailed and different from the book), it will (hopefully) start a discussion about the tough topics with your teens. Whether they’re 13 or 18, they’re either going to be dealing with ALL of these issues or already have.