This Is Us: The Often-Forgotten NICU Warriors
I watched teary-eyed when baby Jack on This Is Us was placed in the NICU. In an instant, I was transported back two years to when my own baby was born.
I watched teary-eyed when baby Jack on This Is Us was placed in the NICU. In an instant, I was transported back two years to when my own baby was born.
I’ve got a case of the “should’s”. You know what I mean. That icky mommy place where you beat yourself up over all the things your kiddos should be doing?
“Women can’t have it all”, they say. “It’s not possible.”I wore that weight for a long time, thinking that I couldn’t have everything my heart desired.
When my first son was born, it took me a while to love him. I have to pause now and sit with that for a minute. I didn’t feel love for my firstborn son.
We have almost completed Pre-K, and it’s time to take the next step. My older son will start school in the fall, and suddenly I’m a mess.
It’s like we expect this light switch to flip on their second birthday and our sweet angel baby to be replaced by a scary toddler!
We’re good enough at guilting ourselves, for not being there, for not paying attention, for holding down a full-time job. We don’t need it from other moms.
When I was younger, I had a big tribe of friends and being busy was really important to me. But as I’ve gotten older, I’m more comfortable in my own skin.
By the time I was 35 I’d had three scares. Every time I’d had a mammogram, I’d had a lump. Every time it was followed by an MRI and a biopsy, and days of terror.
While I thought that while potty training might take a little time, teaching one tiny human to pee in the toilet can’t be that hard, right?